Well I am a Ron White the memory speaker so this blog should be something about memory, the brain or the USA Memory Championship. But today I couldn’t find myself in the mindset to write anything about memory training or improving the brain or even baseball.
When I logged on to my Facebook account I was struck with terrible news that my friend Denai Vaughn, The Networking Queen had lost her life in a car accident in the rain. She was so young. I don’t know how old but less than my age of 38 of sure and had a husband named Tim that she would talk about all the time. I must confessed more than once what it would be like to be married to a woman who loved her husband and showed it so openly. It must have been a magnificent thing for him and I am so sorry for their tragic loss.
Ironically, almost 1 year to the day of her death she posted a video about death and life and how to live life. I won’t explain it because I would just mess up the message that she says best. All I will say, is that the way you interacted with your husband impacted me Denai and gave me something to shoot for you one (a high standard no woman could probably fill). You also inspired me with your smile and positive work ethic.
Here is the video Denai filmed one year before her untimely death and I will give it no explanation. Just allow it to speak for itself:
Thank you, thank you, thank you! I just heard about Denai’s passing just last night…to say that it was a massive shock would be an understatement. Thus, to find her reflecting so poignantly and so maturely and so deeply on the subject of death is a beautiful blessing…(though it would have been an even bigger blessing to have this beautiful young soul with us…) (PS: I can SEE why you chose not to offer an explanation because the very attempt to use words to describe this video just gets us into a deeper and deeper verbal trap…THANKS…)
We aren’t promised tomorrow. Wow. “Live a life that outlives your life.” I believe she did.
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